Private coaching with Alex

You do the work.
I’m in your corner.

Coaching built around your daily life: honest conversation, practical action, and accountability between sessions.

Is this you?

You know you want change.
Following through is hard.

1

You need practical support

You want help bringing the work out of a session and into your real day.

2

You want someone who gets it

You want to talk to someone who knows the exhaustion and doesn’t need you to justify it.

3

You’re willing to take action

You want support, honesty, and accountability while you practice and build momentum.

Choose your level of support

Three ways
to work together.

Not sure where to start?

Book a free 60-minute call to see if we’re a good fit.

Let’s connect

A focused first step

One-Punch Intensive

$200 per session · starting at

Payment plans available

A 90-minute deep dive to identify your OCD cycle and build a clear, practical plan to start breaking it.

  • One 90-minute private session
  • Identify your OCD cycle
  • Build a clear, practical starting plan
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More time. More accountability.

Monthly Destroyer

$1,000 per month

Payment plans available

Two 90-minute sessions per week, plus priority support for premium, high-accountability coaching.

  • Two 90-minute sessions each week
  • Priority between-session support
  • Text, audio note, or short video
  • Short calls of around 15 minutes when appropriate
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Payment plans available for all programs. Disorder Destroyers provides coaching and educational content, not clinical treatment or crisis care.

Our meaningful-progress guarantee

Do the work. Use the tools.
Meaningful progress or your money back.

If you do the work, you should see meaningful progress.

Show up consistently, use the tools we build together, and make a good-faith effort to complete the work we agree on.

If you do that and still feel you’ve made no meaningful progress by the end of the program, tell me. I’ll review the work with you, and if the coaching didn’t deliver what I promised, I’ll refund you 100%.

What meaningful progress can look like

  • Better understanding of your cycle
  • Increased ability to resist compulsions
  • More willingness to tolerate uncertainty
  • Greater confidence applying tools independently
  • Clearer next steps and stronger self-leadership

Do the work. Use the tools. If you make no meaningful progress, you don’t pay.

We agree on your program’s length, goals, and the work we’ll review before coaching begins.

Talk through the guarantee with Alex

A client’s perspective

Janai’s story.

Janai Henderson

But thanks to him I was able to understand my OCD and fight back so I can finally get my life back.

Janai HendersonDisorder Destroyers Co-Host · Monthly Destroyer Graduate

Read Janai’s full testimonial

Common questions

Before you
reach out.

You deserve to know what you’re signing up for.

Ask Alex a question
Is coaching the same as therapy?

Disorder Destroyers provides coaching and educational content, not clinical treatment or crisis care. My role is lived-experience support, accountability, and helping you put recovery-oriented actions into daily practice. Diagnosis and clinical treatment belong with a qualified licensed professional.

Can I work with you while I’m in therapy?

Yes. Coaching is designed to complement appropriate professional treatment and support the work you’re doing between sessions. We’ll discuss how coaching can fit around your existing plan during the free call.

What if I still need to find a therapist?

If you still need to find a therapist, I will help you find the right match that specializes in OCD, anxiety, and cognitive behavioral therapy techniques (CBT and ERP).

How do I choose a package?

Start with the free 60-minute call. We’ll discuss what you want support with and whether a one-off intensive, weekly coaching, or more frequent support makes sense for you.

Are payment plans available?

Yes. Payment plans are available for all programs. Send me a message and we’ll discuss the available options before you make a commitment.

Can I message you between sessions?

Cycle Breaker includes support between sessions. Monthly Destroyer includes priority support. You can send messages at any time; response hours and expectations are agreed before we begin. Disorder Destroyers provides coaching and educational content, not clinical treatment or crisis care.

Start with a conversation

You don’t have to do this alone.

Let’s talk about where you are, what you need, and whether coaching is the right next step. No pressure. Just a real conversation.